I’ll admit that because after the act all you see is her gracious curves and how soft her bosom feels.
You lose focus of what really matters-personality and character , because she drives your senses crazy, you call her daisy and feel she’s amazing.
Some even confuse this with love but get it right great sex is not true love. True love is what happens before and after sex.
Do you still stay up all night just talking to each other or you stay up all night exploring each other’s bodies ??
Do you still wake up each day thinking of how wonderful she is as a person or you day dream of making love to her in different ways ??
Did your love for her grow after sex or did you just find her more entertaining after sex ??
Yes, I will put it out there like that because it is true. Sex binds spiritually and physically. You don’t believe? Let us look at this:
It is harder for a lady to leave a relationship when she has slept with the man, especially when he is her first. No matter how bad things are, she still has her hopes up high because he has her ‘pride’.
The way a lady sees her man is influenced by how he treats her in bed. If he makes sure she is satisfied before he is, she admires him and respects him for that. Thus it strengthens the affection she has for him.
Though some of us young folks see sex before marriage as ‘testing the waters’, I think the fear of sexual disorder can be dealt with differently.Probably talk about it during the time before marriage, so you know what to expect. Moreover, there is more to marriage than sex.
I believe God wants the best for us when he tells us not to have sex before marriage because it protects us from getting hurt. Because at our ages, we are still young and indecisive. Our minds change regarding what we wanna become in future, what our interests are etc. Yes, we evolve. There is no need to rush.
It is the prerogative of every indiviudal to decide what they want, how they want their sexual life to be.
I’d like to thank Arnold Adrian Sarpong of www.sinfulheart.wordpress.com for his input and initiative.Thanks so much for your support!