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If you know you…

If you know you are going to stay in that relationship with that cheating/ lying/ manipulative/ self-centered/ untruthful/ unattentive/ inconsiderate man, kindly stop disrespecting and embarassing yourself by telling people how terrible the relationship is and still staying in it.

Some women are always complaining about their men and vice versa!

Your constant complaints about your spouse actually does not put you in a good light! You are someone who actually does not know their worth! If you keep implying you deserve better, then kindly DO better! Respect yourself!

Get out of the relationship, if it is that bad. If you can fix it, kindly shut up and do so! The only time you discuss your relationship,if you are not praising it, should be when you are seeking for help outside from the right people.

Set the “enough limit” and stick to it. Stop adjusting it. You might die in the process …

 

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QUOTE (Erma Bombeck) – April 24

QUOTE (Erma Bombeck) – April 24

Make use of your talents. Exhaust them…

A DEVOTED LIFE

Erma Bombeck

“When I stand before God at the end of my life, I would hope that I would not have a single bit of talent left, and could say, ‘I used everything you gave me.”
~ Erma Bombeck

In honor of Erma Bombeck, newspaper columnist and author, who died on this day in 1996.

Resources:
This Day in History for 24th April
Erma Bombeck>Quotes

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Tricks On How To Avoid Yeast Infection

Tricks On How To Avoid Yeast Infection

Silent Disasters! Easy Tips To Help Fight Them!

The Healthy Women

80612243 Yeast infections can be embarrassing and painful. Furthermore, treating yeast infections can be hard and the course of treatment often lasts for several months. So, to make life that little bit easier for chronic yeast infection sufferers, this article contains a few proven tips that will help to eradicate chronic yeast infections effectively.

Try to incorporate a good amount of garlic into your diet during the course of the day. Garlic is a great antioxidant that can help fight off the yeast in your body. Simply consume garlic with your food or use it to cook to get it into your diet in the day and night.

Avoid anything caustic or scented. These items can cause redness and irritation in your vaginal region. They really mess with the natural environment of the vagina. Doing this boosts your chances of yeast infections. If you must, try to only use delicate soaps…

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Lesson: Trust Your Mother’s Judgement

Lesson: Trust Your Mother’s Judgement

Soooooooooo here we are!!!

Jeez! Time surely flies fast! I can’t believe the first quarter of this year already ended!

I am thankful for the little achievements that came with it. And I surely have a few lessons that I learned. Some were the very hard way, others, not so hard. But hey, we learn and we live!

This lesson is actually one I should have learned before ending my teens. But well, better late than never. I have learned to respect motherhood. I have learned to respect my mother’s wisdom. I have learned to accept her love, as fierce as it is.

A friend told me last week: “Hey, let me tell you this. No matter how high you climb a tree, you will not see what your mother sees, seated under that tree.” Growing up, I had people advise me to be obedient to my mother. I heeded to that advice till I was probably 19. I felt mature enough to handle my business. But these past few months, I have learnt that I can not be grown past mommy. My wisdom is not her level of wisdom. She has seen what I am seeing and more. She knows the consequences of my decisions and actions. She tries to guide me from pain, from getting myself hurt. Of course, I have to make my own mistakes, but some mistakes are too painful and unnecessary.

A mother will not sit down passively and watch her child run into fire. She will do everything to distract your path to that fire. She will do everything to make sure you are aware of the danger ahead. Sometimes you are running into that fire, knowing very well it is hot, yet you have that silly hope that, either, you are immune to the heat or that the fire is not that hot. A loving mother will take measures, regardless what it costs her, to prevent you from getting burnt.

Yes, you feel misunderstood. You feel belittled. You feel insulted because you are deemed unfit to handle your own business, your own life. Yes it is your life, you bear the consequences. But remember, when you hurt, your mother hurts too. Her heart bleeds when you are broken. Your life is connected to hers. She wants the best for you. Trust her judgement. Help yourself by trying to see things her way. Swallow your pride. Be patient with her. Take time to listen.  It is your happiness that is at stake.

Remember, you both are a team. Your happiness is her happiness. Her joy is seeing you succeed. Image

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5 Truths About Giving

5 Truths About Giving

How to Give:

1. With a cheerful heart, not grudgingly, Give out of your own free will.

2. Without expecting anything in return

3. With faith that you are giving something positive. Something does not have to be material. A smile, a prayer, time, all these can be given and can change situations for the better.

4. You can only give what you have. You cannot rob Peter to pay Paul, It usually does not end well. So, add value to yourself. Invest in yourself and share the profit with others.

5. Giving makes you fulfilled. You experience pure joy when you give.

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Ten Signs He Is A Player

Ten Signs He Is A Player

Cave Of Strength

  1. Shallow conversations – He refuses to talk about emotions, feelings or future plans. Marriage is out of quesion. Even when he speaks about it, he never acts towards it. He wouldn’t even discuss intellectual topics. He is all about sex, sex, sex. How cute your body looks etc.
  2. Protective Over His Phone – Yeah, either you never get the password or he deleted his filthy conversations. His chats are always empty! Honeychile, he is hiding something!
  3. Keeps The Relationship Secret – Yep! He cannot afford to be exposed. That would only bring trouble! He hesitates to meet your family and friends (he prefers meeting the female friends so he can hit on them). He brings up excuses why you cannot meet his family. He makes your fears a reason to keep the relationship secret.
  4. 80% Of Time Spent Together Is On Sex – Every date, meeting, hangout you have ends…

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