If you know you are going to stay in that relationship with that cheating/ lying/ manipulative/ self-centered/ untruthful/ unattentive/ inconsiderate man, kindly stop disrespecting and embarassing yourself by telling people how terrible the relationship is and still staying in it.
Some women are always complaining about their men and vice versa!
Your constant complaints about your spouse actually does not put you in a good light! You are someone who actually does not know their worth! If you keep implying you deserve better, then kindly DO better! Respect yourself!
Get out of the relationship, if it is that bad. If you can fix it, kindly shut up and do so! The only time you discuss your relationship,if you are not praising it, should be when you are seeking for help outside from the right people.
Set the “enough limit” and stick to it. Stop adjusting it. You might die in the process …