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Hiii Lovelies,

I have been trying out the Brazilian Loose Wave hair extensions by Londonvirginhair.com

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Last Push

Last Push

A happy, blessed and successful new month to you!
Yes, November is here!
And depending on where you are the changes around you all indicate that the end of the year is near!
When I realised this yesterday I panicked for a second because I realised I had less time to achieve the goals I want to achieve this year.
After a while I relaxed and told myself I just have to work extra hard, put in more energy, re-focus and stay focused to achieve these goals.
And that’s what I want to share with you.
The last 20% of the year should be maximised.
Don’t waste time fretting and holding yourself and your success back. Stop saying I can’t. You truly can.
Make that decision, that step to channel all positive energy into achieving your goals.
One reason why you should put in even more effort is that you can look back and be proud of yourself and achievements. If you don’t get to the point where you wished to be, that’s not bad. You’ve actually started something you can continue in the next year.
So it’s a win-win situation once you work harder.
Motivate yourself to do more.
Take stock of your achievements.
Remember where you started from and where you have gotten to today.
And give your goals one last hard push

How to deal with a cheating boyfriend

How to deal with a cheating boyfriend

Cheating is inexcusable. Cheating hurts your partner. Cheating not only humiliates your partner, but also ruins their self confidence.

The youth today sadly glorifies infidelity, conveniently forgetting that it leads to broken homes, transmission of STIs, distrust amongst others.

Some guys cheat because of peer pressure. They want to belong so they do as their friends are doing so they can belong. Other guys cheat because getting the confirmation from other ladies makes them feel good.
Some guys simply cheat because they are plain immature and indecisive.

Now you find out your boyfriend is cheating. What do you do?
Every situation is different.
If you find out and he’s remorseful, it makes it easier to help him.
Some actually confess because they couldn’t live with the guilt. I think such men deserve a second chance. Forgive these men and help them.
Now, those who show no remorse and actually blame you for their act. That relationship needs to be weighed.

Never take blame for his actions. If he has an issue, he should be able to talk to you about it for the love of your relationship. If he doesn’t see any progress, for the respect he’d love to be given, he should just end the relationship and start a new one. You are not the cause of the problem.

Ladies, don’t go contacting the other lady, warning her to stay off your man. You and her have no business. It’s him you’re in a relationship with. Face him and confront him because he’s the one you have a relationship with. The other lady has her own issues.

Lastly, don’t just take an apology and let it rest because you love him. Make your own investigations. Why did he cheat? What role did your attitude play at that time? What exactly was his incentive? When was the incident? How long did it last?
These questions will help you determine whether or not you’ll stay with him.

Share your thoughts and concerns with me tadibabe@gmail.com, mamizzle233 on twitter.

Choose your battles wisely

Choose your battles wisely

You know how you want to get back at people for hurting you. How confusing it is when people you know are evil seem to be enjoying life without worries. You feel it’s your responsibility to ensure they feel pain or face difficulties?

Don’t waste your time on such people. Don’t waste your time on people who are already lost.

Truth of the matter is: they’re suffering. They’re temporarily great at hiding it. You’ll see them bearing the consequences of their actions without your help.

But most importantly, stop giving them your attention. Don’t wish them evil. Try to forgive them and channel your energy and time to yourself.

Concentrate on yourself. Fight battles that will lead you into victory. Find new challenges for yourself so you can progress.

When you are in an environment surrounded by people who don’t like you, don’t concentrate on them. Don’t allow their hateful attitude get to you.

If you can have a mature conversation with them to solve the issue, fine. But if not, simply reflect on how you can make things better. Instead of picking fights that drain you of your energy and make the situation worse, invest in yourself.

Make sure you do what you are supposed to do. Add value to yourself. This way, you earn their respect. Don’t waste your time beating yourself down. Use your time wisely. Look forward to overcoming challenges. Look forward to the better and stronger you.

Changes…

Changes…

Change is inevitable. Change is the only constant aspect of life.

As long as you’re alive, changes will occur. Be they in your body, mind, opinions, beliefs, environment, relationships.

All around and within you, changes will be taking place.

Some changes are easy, fun and pleasant. Others are hard, challenging and painful.
Some changes threaten the very being of your existence. Fact is, no process of change leaves you the same.

However challenging the changes in your life my be, you have to make it a point to ensure that that particular change works out for your own good. That process of change must be of advantage to you.
Make sure that period of painful transitioning yields good fruit in your life and adds something to the achievement of your personal aims and goals.

Whenever you’re in a not so comfortable situation, keep your eyes on your goal. Look for ways to bring yourself closer to your goal. Don’t waste time in despair. Try your best to stay driven.

Make plans ahead of time. So unexpected changes won’t take you by surprise and wreck your dream. Once you have a plan, a change will only mean adjusting those plans to fit the situation. You definitely won’t be completely lost, as prior planning serve as an orientation.

As you’re adjusting your plans, you’ll have to be on the lookout for advantages that come with the change. If you don’t see any, just remember: “what doesn’t kill you can only make you stronger”!

Even when the process of change turns out to be pleasant, challenge yourself by raising your expectations and aims. Add extra goals.

This way, you’re maximising your potential in all situations. You’re forced to see the positive side in every situation. You’re definitely going to be on the path of success.

Change can be good to you, only if you make it work to your advantage.

As iron sharpens iron …

As iron sharpens iron …

Never underestimate the influence the company you keep has on you.

People you stay in contact with rub off on you, one way or the other.
You pick up ideas and character traits from people consciously or unconsciously.

Even if you don’t copy their activities or ideas, they influence how you think regarding those activities or ideas.

This becomes critical when it comes to your ability to achieve your dreams.
The conversations you have either push your dreams into reality or they keep your progress stagnant. Worst case, the wrong kind of conversations could kill your dreams.

So therefore, choose your friends wisely.
Find people who are in the same movement as you. You need people with similar goals.

Conversations with such people encourage you. You learn from their mistakes. Conversations with the right people will open your eyes to things that will fuel the progress/journey to achieving your dreams.
Even their activities show the type of people they are.
How determined they go about their goals is definitely going to motivate and encourage you for your own journey.

Yes, you have to activate your senses to screen the people who come into your life to know whether they’re adding to or taking away from you.
Are they supportive? Do they cause you to move in the right direction? Do they make you feel you are wasting time and resources?
Anyone who is extra baggage for your journey must be left behind. You have to save your energy for what’s important and what’s positive.
You don’t have to be rude to those who don’t share your vision, you simply have to limit the time you spend with them.

In the end, it all boils down to you knowing what you want and how to get what you want.
It’s up to you to know/decide how much you need your dreams achieved.
And then you’ll know how to control the influence that is coming in because …
As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.

Loyalty: A lesson by Adulthood

Loyalty: A lesson by Adulthood

In the process of becoming an adult,  you experience series of changes. Changes in your body,  mentality,  location,  dreams and relationships.
One of the many changes is loyalty in relationships.
As a child,  you automatically protect people who protect you or people you love. As a child, you are automatically protected by people who love you and are protected by you.
As a child,  you are taught that one hand washes the other.
But then, as you’re growing up,  you realise that sometimes your hand is stil unwashed after you’ve washed your friend’s/brother’s/sister’s.
You feel disappointed.
The truth of the matter is: Growing up has taught everyone how to wash their own hands.
Yes, people are focused on their own pursuits. Which is actually good because people around you can only be happy doing what they enjoy.
So this is the time for you to find out who cherishes you enough to have you on their minds.
There’s no need to bear grudges with people because they weren’t there when you needed them. Don’t count on external support.  Focus on your personal strengths and weaknesses. Utilize them to the maximum.  Then when you get external help,  be grateful and note them for future purposes.
Your loyalty must be redefined and the benefactors of your loyalty reorganised.
Your loyalty should work for you first and foremost,  then you can extend it out to others.