Choose your battles wisely

Choose your battles wisely

You know how you want to get back at people for hurting you. How confusing it is when people you know are evil seem to be enjoying life without worries. You feel it’s your responsibility to ensure they feel pain or face difficulties?

Don’t waste your time on such people. Don’t waste your time on people who are already lost.

Truth of the matter is: they’re suffering. They’re temporarily great at hiding it. You’ll see them bearing the consequences of their actions without your help.

But most importantly, stop giving them your attention. Don’t wish them evil. Try to forgive them and channel your energy and time to yourself.

Concentrate on yourself. Fight battles that will lead you into victory. Find new challenges for yourself so you can progress.

When you are in an environment surrounded by people who don’t like you, don’t concentrate on them. Don’t allow their hateful attitude get to you.

If you can have a mature conversation with them to solve the issue, fine. But if not, simply reflect on how you can make things better. Instead of picking fights that drain you of your energy and make the situation worse, invest in yourself.

Make sure you do what you are supposed to do. Add value to yourself. This way, you earn their respect. Don’t waste your time beating yourself down. Use your time wisely. Look forward to overcoming challenges. Look forward to the better and stronger you.

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Changes…

Changes…

Change is inevitable. Change is the only constant aspect of life.

As long as you’re alive, changes will occur. Be they in your body, mind, opinions, beliefs, environment, relationships.

All around and within you, changes will be taking place.

Some changes are easy, fun and pleasant. Others are hard, challenging and painful.
Some changes threaten the very being of your existence. Fact is, no process of change leaves you the same.

However challenging the changes in your life my be, you have to make it a point to ensure that that particular change works out for your own good. That process of change must be of advantage to you.
Make sure that period of painful transitioning yields good fruit in your life and adds something to the achievement of your personal aims and goals.

Whenever you’re in a not so comfortable situation, keep your eyes on your goal. Look for ways to bring yourself closer to your goal. Don’t waste time in despair. Try your best to stay driven.

Make plans ahead of time. So unexpected changes won’t take you by surprise and wreck your dream. Once you have a plan, a change will only mean adjusting those plans to fit the situation. You definitely won’t be completely lost, as prior planning serve as an orientation.

As you’re adjusting your plans, you’ll have to be on the lookout for advantages that come with the change. If you don’t see any, just remember: “what doesn’t kill you can only make you stronger”!

Even when the process of change turns out to be pleasant, challenge yourself by raising your expectations and aims. Add extra goals.

This way, you’re maximising your potential in all situations. You’re forced to see the positive side in every situation. You’re definitely going to be on the path of success.

Change can be good to you, only if you make it work to your advantage.